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Sep04

My Formula for Success and Goal Obtainment

by Winston on September 4th, 2011 at 4:46 am
Posted In: Goals, Motivation

Here are the general steps for success and goal obtainment:

1. You need to know what you want. Contrary to those who say no one really knows what they want; You need to first define what it is you want and have a burning desire for it. Next time when someone asks you want it is you want ( your major goal) – make sure you can look them dead in the eye and clearly and precisely tell them just that. This is the first step and usually requires the most work on – as habits needs to change in order to keep your goals always in the back of your mind. Daily and consistent actions and thinking aligned with obtaining your goal will ingrain your goal into your subconscious and form new habits that ensure your success.

2. Research those who have done or become what you want in your goal. You can save hour, months, or even years off your journey when you find and model those who’s current status is that which you want. Find out what they are doing, what their belief system is, and that distinction that is setting them apart from whatever it is you want. In most circumstances, it is only a slight or minor action, edge, strategy, or thinking that has a profound effect on what it takes to get what you want. It is best to see them in their peak state so you can model exactly what it is they are doing in terms of what they are focusing on, how they take on disappointment and success.

3. Setup or have a system in place to track and measure your results so that you can see what is working and what is not working. Tracking what is pulling you towards or away from your goals is essential. This also ties closely with step 2. You need to know exactly what metrics you need to measure, track and improve on. Those who you need to model usually have a keen focus on these metrics and their actions tie closely to affecting these metrics with maximum effectiveness.

With constant improvement and refinement to your strategies, go back to steps 1 to 3 until you do achieve your goals. These are the major steps you really need to achieve your goals. I would just like to point out some useful things below.

4. A lot of people say you are the average of the 4-5 people you hang out with most. Or more commonly – birds of a feather flock together. This is generally true in business and in life so be careful who you associate and hang out with. You really should not let others know your major goals in life but make your best to hang out with those that are in alignment with your major goals and spend less time with those who don’t. Finding people that compliment your skills and have same goal alignments will rocket you to success.

5. Remember the 80-20 principle is always working – is it working with or against you. Apply it to the actions that affect the metrics you need to focus on the most so you can scale your results and achieve your goals faster.

6. Remember you are either growing or dying. There is no constant state. Know which one you are on or you may one day wake up and find out you died a slow death.

7. Aim high. Weak goals do not motivate and rarely have enough juice to keep you going in times of doubt, or failure.

8. Stay hungry. Do not settle for anything less than all you can be, do, have, give, and achieve.

9. Enjoy the journey, and be grateful as it is the only real thing you got at the end of it – the experience and living it on your terms.

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Aug31

Write It Down First

by Winston on August 31st, 2011 at 5:36 am
Posted In: Goals, Personal Finance

I recently found a journal/notebook I had used about 3 years ago that kept track of my goals and thoughts during the year. The journal was filled from front to back with notes on goals, wants, ideas, and achievements. It documented a lot of days when everything seemed to be going well and when things were not so great. Flipping through the journal, I soon got caught up in it and it felt like I was reading someone else’s experiences – some matched the ones I remembered. It was about 100 pages and I read through each page after the first dozen notes. I noticed that I had a huge goal set out that year written even in the first few pages of the journal and was interested in seeing if and how I managed to pull it off. The journal was like a storybook – with a guy on an adventure and on a mission. In the beginning it looked like an impossibility for him with failed attempts, ideas that sound silly now, and no clear path to reaching the goal. In the half way point of the journal, I was hooked and really wanted to see how I achieved that impossible goal I set out for myself so I read the notes carefully. I found out that I did 3 major things to help me achieve that impossible at the time goal. These are

1. Write down the chief aim or goal on top of your journal every day. With today: and Monthly:

Somehow after I kept writing these things on top of my journal everyday (my day and my month) the impossible goal was making its way to me faster.

2. Studying successful people who have achieved my impossible goal:

This was a key turning point in my journal – the moment I started studying and learning from people who have been there and done it, my goal was becoming into my reality faster and faster.

3. Work on what is working or scale just a handful of things for more results:

In the beginning of the journal it was a whole page filled with wild ideas and new stuff to test out but with little to no success. Then at the end of the journal it was short and simple with emphasis on what was working. My Today, my month, and what needs to be done was the last 10 or so pages with the goal in grasp and in plain site. They were just a handful of HIGH impact action items that yielded 90% of my results and my journal showed that I only concentrated on these during my last few hurdles.

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Aug31

When to Refinance Rule of Thumb Myths

by Winston on August 31st, 2011 at 5:15 am
Posted In: Personal Finance

Here is an excellent article on Refinancing and if it is right for you now: You’ve probably found yourself at one time or another wondering whether it was a good time or not to refinance the house. You figure you can consolidate some bills, free up some monthly cash, maybe take some cash out…you know…to fix up the house…possibly get that new flat screen TV you’ve been talking about…and then maybe take a vacation with what’s left. Sounds good. It helps the economy, and hopefully it helps you too.

Like many people, you have probably heard of, or hold to, a rule of thumb regarding when to refinance that appears to have served others, or even yourself, well. I say “appears” precisely because things are not always what they appear to be. And when it comes to when to refinance rules of thumb, you must beware of simplistic rules. A refinance is likely the LARGEST financial transaction you may ever make and two of the most widely used rules of thumb don’t consider the big picture. Simple is great, except when it’s SIMPLY WRONG.

When To Refinance Rule Of Thumb Myth #1

So what are these two when to refinance rule of thumb myths, and how is it they can appear to be giving you a good deal, while in many cases actually costing you thousands? Well the first myth is what many people call the 2% Rule. This rule states that you should never refinance into a mortgage that doesn’t reduce your interest rate by at least 2%. And if you can refinance into a mortgage with a 2% or greater decrease in interest rate, then the monthly savings will add up to long term savings over the life of the new loan. In some cases this can be true and in many others it is not. The problem with this rule, as you will see shortly, is that it is blind to all other loan factors besides rate. Let’s take a look at some actual figures and put this rule to the test.

(Note: The figures and calculations below will be explained for those of you that want to learn to calculate refinance costs yourself, as well as for those of you that may not trust my math…LOL. I apologize if I get too detailed, but I really want YOU to know for YOURSELF if you’re saving money, rather than relying on a salesman’s opinion. This is information EVERYONE MUST HAVE. As you read this article you will learn how to save thousands in the refinance market, so it’s well worth your time to read each section all the way to the end. Also please note that the Mortgage Payment Calculator mentioned below can be found by following the link found at the end of this article. It is not needed to follow along with this article, unless you wish to double-check the calculations.)

For our example, let’s assume 15 years ago you took out a fixed rate home mortgage for $195,000 at 8% for 30 years. Your CURRENT balance on the loan is $149,720.90. You have 15 years left to go and the payment on this mortgage is $1,430.85 per month. If you input these figures into my Mortgage Payment Calculator you’ll see that the TOTAL amount of money you will pay in principal and interest over the life of this loan is $515,092.47. (This total cost is disclosed to you on a lender’s Truth-in-Lending Statement (TIL), and by law this statement must be provided to you by the lender within 3 business days of application.)

Over 15 years you’ve made 180 payments of $1,430.85 for a total of $257,553.00 already paid. If we subtract what you’ve already paid from the total obligation of $515,092.47 we find that you still owe $257,539.47 for the final 15 years. This number serves as a good starting point for comparing different loan offers, because you should have your Truth-in-Lending (TIL) Statement early (within 3 days) and it will instantly show if the new loan is substantially more costly than your current mortgage. But this is NOT the final word as there are other considerations that vastly affect cost and savings. We’ll get to that shortly, but first let’s continue with our example.

A lender has offered you a $150,000 fixed rate mortgage at 6% for 30 years with 2 discount points down and $2500 in closing and processing fees. (A single discount point is equal to 1% of the loan amount.) Like many people you may decide to finance the points and fees into the loan. For this example we will finance these costs, so our total NEW loan amount will actually be $155,500, but still at 6% and still for 30 years, and your monthly payment will be $932.31. Using either my Mortgage Payment Calculator or your TIL we can see that the total cost of this new loan is $335,622.63.

So is this refinance going to save you money? It does follow the 2% Rule. The lower payment is also SAVING you $498.54 every month, but the TIL shows it COSTS $78,083.16 more to take this loan. So what’s the deal? Will this loan save you money, or cost you money? The correct answer is…IT DEPENDS.

As it happens, one of the most determinate factors affecting your wallet in a refinance is TIME. And I don’t just mean the number of years on your mortgage term. Regarding our example above, I specifically mean the length of time you plan on keeping your home or mortgage. This is one of those factors that the 2% Rule fails to consider. So why is that so important? It’s because any savings or costs in a refinance are realized over TIME. The bottom line is constantly changing as time progresses, you could be saving more and more, or losing more and more.

It is true that the above refinance would cost you $78,083.16, but that’s only after 30 years. However, after only five years, taking the refinance has actually SAVED you $3,140.18. If you moved or paid off your mortgage after five years you’d be ahead of the game. At 10 years you’d still be ahead by $253.16, at 15 years you’ve lost $20,741.16 and at 20 years you’ve lost $50,172.85. I’m sure you can see the downward trend as time moves on. The monthly payment savings has the most benefit early on in the loan, while the slower decline of the principal balance progressively nullifies that benefit as time goes forward. The impact is substantial, yet the 2% Rule doesn’t consider either of these two factors.

Let’s give the 2% Rule another test run as a when to refinance rule of thumb. We’ll use the same scenario as above, but we’ll make it a debt consolidation refinance that you’re considering. This refinance will pay off $20,000 in credit card and other consumer debt, freeing up the $250 you had been sending in for monthly payments. So in this case the loan amount will be $175,900. We’re still financing the 2 points and closing fees and the rate is still 6%. But now let’s make the TERM for 15 years. This shorter term makes the monthly payment $1,484.35 which is actually in increase of $53.50 over your present payment, but when combined with the debt consolidation savings of $250, nets you a TOTAL monthly savings of $196.50 every month. Using either my Mortgage Payment Calculator or the TIL you will see the total cost of this loan is $267,181.30. Subtracting this from the $257,539.47 we know you still owe on your current mortgage results in a LOSS of $9,641.83, after 15 years, IF you take this refinance.

But as I mentioned earlier, this is not the final word as there are other considerations. Like what? Well, like the $250 you’re saving every month on those paid off debts. We still have to account for that. The Truth-in-Lending statement only shows costs related to mortgage payments and loan balances over time. Now since our CURRENT loan has 15 years left and our NEW loan is for 15 years, the loan balances would reach zero at the same time, so after 15 years the costs related to loan balances are the same. This means the only cost shown in our TIL comparison above comes from the change in monthly payment. That’s why if you multiply the loss of $53.50 over 180 months (15 years) the resulting total loss of $9,630 is basically IDENTICAL to the loss of $9,641.83 shown in our TIL comparison. (While it’s a negligible amount, the reason for the difference is that the FINAL payment on a loan is almost always lower than the NORMAL monthly payment, where our calculation assumes all 180 payments were the same.)

Now, back to accounting for the other consideration–the debt consolidation savings. When we multiply the monthly savings of $250 over 180 months, or 15 years, the resulting total is $45,000.00. When combined with the loss of $9,641.83 we find you’ve actually saved $35,358.17 after 15 years!

So the 2% Rule is in effect, and we can demonstrate some pretty substantial savings over the life of the loan. Does that mean that using the 2% Rule in this case will definitely save you money? Again…IT DEPENDS. If you moved or paid off this mortgage after five years you’ve actually lost $3,982.92.

This is because the difference in loan balances (what you would have to pay-off) is greater early in the loan. And the monthly payment savings can only show benefit once the steadily accelerating decline in the principal balance of the NEW loan has been given time to catch up to where the balance of the OLD loan would be at that time. (This will make more sense when I show you how to calculate this for yourself shortly.)

There is an upward trend in savings as time moves on, going from the negative, upward into the positive. So for this refinance to save you money, you must STAY in your mortgage until that trend line flips from the negative side of losses to the positive side of savings. But again, this information fails to be considered when using the 2% Rule as a when to refinance rule of thumb. Clearly, relying on the 2% Rule as a when to refinance rule of thumb is no guarantee of savings.

When To Refinance Rule Of Thumb Myth #2

I promised you two when to refinance rule of thumb myths and I won’t disappoint. The second myth that could cost you thousands of dollars is what I will refer to as, for brevity’s sake, the $200/month & 5 Year Rule. This rule states that if you can refinance into a mortgage that saves you at least $200 every month AND doesn’t add more than five years to the remaining term on your current mortgage, then it will save you money in the long run. The problem with the $200/month & 5 Year Rule as a when to refinance rule of thumb is that, like the 2% Rule, it is blind to many of the same loan factors such as the impact of time and loan balances. But where the 2% Rule was blind to monthly savings, the $200/month & 5 Year Rule is instead blind to interest rate. Let’s check out some actual figures and see if this rule fares any better than the 2% Rule.

In this example, let’s assume 15 years ago you took out a fixed rate home mortgage for $211,000 at 6% for 30 years. Your CURRENT balance on the loan is $149,910.62. You have 15 years left to go and the payment on this mortgage is $1,265.06 per month. If you input these figures into my Mortgage Payment Calculator you’ll see that the total amount of money you will pay in principal and interest over the life of this loan is $455,413.17. Over the last 15 years, the 180 payments of $1,265.06 you’ve made total $227,710.80. Subtract this from the total cost of $455,413.17 and we see you still owe $227,702.37 over the next 15 years. As before, this becomes our starting point for comparison.

The lender comes back with a debt consolidation loan offer in order to provide the $200 monthly savings. Again we’ll assume you’re paying off $20,000 in credit card and other consumer debt, which frees up $250 each month. So the offer is a fixed rate mortgage of $175,900 at 6% which includes the 2 discount points and closing fees which are being financed. In order to get the $200 monthly savings, it is necessary to extend the TERM to 20 years, and this makes your monthly payment $1,260.21. This is a monthly savings of $4.85 over your PRESENT payment and you’re also saving $250 per month due to debt consolidation for a total savings of $254.85 each month. Using either my Mortgage Payment Calculator or your TIL we can see that the total cost of this NEW loan is $302,446.81 after 20 years. Subtracting this from the $227,702.37 we know you still owe on your CURRENT mortgage results in a loss of $74,744.43 after 20 years, IF you take this refinance.

But as you remember from our prior debt consolidation example, we still have to account for the $250 monthly savings over those 20 years as well. So 240 months, or 20 years, multiplied by $250 per month in savings equals $60,000. When we combine that with the loss of $74,744.43 from our TIL costs calculation, it results in a total loss of $14,744.43 after 20 years.

Well, so much for the $200/month & 5 Year Rule being bulletproof. What if you get out of the home or mortgage early in the term, do you come out ahead then? Sadly, no. In this scenario, the rule FAILS COMPLETELY. The loss after 20 years is the HIGHEST this trend line ever climbs. It is climbing, but climbing only halfway out of a hole still leaves you in the hole. After five years you’ve lost $20,103.16 and after 15 years you’ve lost $19,309.81.

In this scenario the $200/month & 5 Year Rule would cost you thousands no matter what you did. Like the 2% Rule, I know there are scenarios where this rule can be applied, and it will be financially beneficial, but blindly relying upon either of these rules as a when to refinance rule of thumb is a crap-shoot. How do you do when you’re in Vegas? “Do you feel lucky…punk? Well DO ya…?”

The banks, like casinos, have all run their numbers. They know the statistics, they know the odds. If you’re determined to come out on top, then you must RUN THE NUMBERS.

So as a when to refinance rule of thumb, do the 2% Rule or the $200/month & 5 Year Rule work? Sometimes Yes, and sometimes No. Do they capture all of the complexities related to refinance costs? Certainly not. Do they serve as reliable when to refinance rules of thumb to use as a basis for your next refinance decision? That’s something only you can answer for yourself, but as for myself, I trust numbers and I am always going to DO THE MATH. To me, a rule that works sometimes is UNRELIABLE, and essentially not a rule at all, it’s a myth.

The Best & Only When To Refinance Rule Of Thumb

DO THE MATH. DO THE MATH. DO THE MATH.

When it comes to home refinancing, you really need to see the process for what it is…possibly the LARGEST financial decision affecting your wealth that you will ever make. In one of the above examples the savings over 15 years exceeded $35,000. That’s an EXTRA YEAR’S SALARY for many of us, 2080 hours of wages for which you didn’t have to do any work. In another example, the losses were twice that over 30 years. Ouch! The only way you can be sure that you’re saving and not losing is to DO THE MATH. You’ve seen me throwing out all of these trend figures for different points in time, without explanation for how I derived them. Now I’m going to show you how to calculate your refinance savings or losses for YOURSELF.

There are really only five factors involved in comparing the costs of a CURRENT loan to a REFINANCE loan for any point in time. They are:

1-Monthly Payments Difference Cost/Savings to date

2-Debt Consolidation Savings to date

3-Remaining Balances Difference

4-Cost of Refinance (Points & Fees)

5-Term Difference Savings to date

Our FIRST STEP is to subtract the CURRENT Monthly Payment from the NEW Monthly Payment.

Example: $1265.06 (CMP) – $1260.21 (NMP) = $4.85

The result is a gain of $4.85 per month. If ever this calculation results in a loss, be sure the number has a negative sign(-).

The NEXT STEP is to add any Debt Consolidation Savings to the result of the last calculation. (Remember, if the last calculation resulted in a loss you’re essentially subtracting here, since you’re adding a negative number.)

Example: $4.85 (MP Savings) + $250 (DC Savings) = $254.85

Now we need to know the point in time you wish to examine. Let’s look at five years out. So that is a total of 60 months from now. Since in this example you’re saving $254.85 every month that’s a total savings of $15,291.00. Write this number down in a column.

The NEXT STEP is to determine the Remaining Balances for BOTH loans in five years. Using my Mortgage Payment Calculator will help make this easier. In this example, the beginning loan amount on the CURRENT mortgage was $208,000 at 6% for 30 years with zero points and $3000 in closing costs which were financed, and you’ve been in the mortgage for 15 years. If you input these figures you’ll see that after 15 years in the mortgage, your CURRENT loan balance is $149,910.62. The amortization table shows that in five more years (20 years into the mortgage) your Remaining Balance will be $113,943.69. Now let’s find out where the NEW loan will be in five years.

For this example, input a loan amount of $170,000 at 6% for 20 years. It also has 2 points and $2500 in closing costs, which are being input ONLY because they are being financed. (If you are paying points and fees out of pocket, DO NOT include them in this calculator input.) Hit the Calculate button and you’ll see that after five years your Remaining Balance is $149,337.85. Subtract this NEW Remaining Balance from the CURRENT Remaining Balance.

Example: $113,943.69 (CRB) – $149,337.85 (NRB) = -$35,394.16* *Notice the result has a negative sign(-).

Add this negative number to the column with the $15,291.00. When you total these numbers it shows a TOTAL LOSS of -$20,103.16 after five years. In this example, this is the FINAL TOTAL after five years.

The last two of the five factors don’t apply to this example. The Closing Costs don’t need to be deducted here because they were financed, and their expense is accounted for in the Remaining Balance on the NEW loan. If we had not financed the points and fees, then you would determine their total cost and write it in the column as a negative number, totaling it with the other numbers in the column in order to account for the cost. And the last factor, Term Difference Savings, doesn’t apply because we are only looking five years ahead. This factor has no effect until the term on the CURRENT mortgage has expired.

To show you how to account for this last factor, let’s compare the same two loans but look 20 years ahead, five years after your CURRENT mortgage has expired. The monthly savings of $254.85 multiplied by 240 months, or 20 years, is $61,164.00. Write this in a new column, since it’s a new point in time.

Now the Remaining Balances Difference after 20 years is actually $0.00. The CURRENT loan only had 15 years to go and the NEW loan was only for 20 years, so a zero balance minus a zero balance equals zero. Write a zero in the column.

The Closing Costs were financed and therefore accounted for, so the only remaining factor is the Term Differences Savings. Since your current mortgage expires in 15 years, but the new mortgage is for 20 years, this is the money you would NOT have to pay for the final five years if you STAY in your CURRENT mortgage. Your CURRENT monthly payment is $1265.06 and NOT paying that for 60 months would save you $75,903.60. This number is also written in the column, but as a negative since this is a loss you realize by taking this refinance. Total up the $61,164.00 and the $0.00 and the -$75,903.60 and you’ll get a FINAL TOTAL LOSS of -$14,739.60 after 20 years or the life of the loan.

You can even double check this by using the TIL cost calculation as demonstrated at the beginning of this article.

Example: $227,702.38 (Remaining Cost) – $302,446.81 (New Cost) = -$74,744.43

This example’s total loss is -$74,744.43 after 20 years. We already know the TIL can’t account for Debt Consolidation Savings, so in order to make a true comparison we need to account for those savings. Now $250 a month over 240 months, or 20 years, is $60,000.00. When we add that $60,000.00 Debt Consolidation Savings to the TIL costs calculation result in the example above, the total result is a loss of -$14,744.43–nearly identical to the FINAL TOTAL LOSS of -$14,739.60 we were double checking. This is proof of the accuracy of this method and I hope you can see it’s value.

I do admit, all this math can become a bit tedious, especially when looking at several different points in time for several different offers. If your interested in a great alternative to doing all of this math manually, you should check out the Trend Master Refinance Calculation Tool. It will do all of this math in a flash and show you in a user friendly way, exactly how your mortgage will affect you. It’s really a fantastic tool. You can find out more by following the link provided below.

Advice From A Former Mortgage Professional

I STRONGLY ENCOURAGE you to create tables of each of your loan comparisons over several different points in time. Seeing the trends visually can be truly enlightening. Keep in mind the length of time you plan on staying in the home. I also highly, HIGHLY recommend you get multiple, read many, quotes from different lenders. A “Good Deal” means not only putting yourself in a better financial position, but also getting the best value in the current market.

THINK about that last sentence for a minute.

If a 2% interest decrease saves you $300 a month and $10,000 long term, is it a “Good Deal?” What if another lender was offering a 3% decrease at that time and it saved you $600 a month and $40,000 long term? Is the first offer still a “Good Deal” or a “Not So Good Deal?”

Look at it another way, if you bought a $60,000 car for $50,000, and then saw it somewhere else for $35,000, regardless of how much money you saved, you’d still probably feel cheated. That’s because deep down you know you got a deal, but NOT a “Good Deal.”

You should always explore the market. Multiple offers help give ALL of the offers a sense of scale and value. Utilize the methods I have given you here. Use my Mortgage Payment Calculator to assist you. Always DO THE MATH and look at the trends over time. Information is power.

Use the tools that work and throw out the tools that don’t. Oversimplified when to refinance rules of thumb are tools that don’t work. The Trend Master Refinance Calculation Tool is a tool that does work. Follow the link below to learn more about what it can do for you. You owe it to your pocketbook to at least check it out.

Another suggestion is to contact actual lenders. You’re not obligated to anything until you sign at closing and it costs nothing to get a quote. Get the Good-Faith-Estimate and the Truth-in-Lending statements from each lender. They are REQUIRED BY LAW to provide them within 3 business days of application. Also ask for an amortization schedule as well, since it will show you the loan balances over time.

A final word. There are some fantastic online services that take most of the work out of mortgage shopping today. You can fill out just one online application and get back multiple offers very quickly. At that point you can apply my methods for each offer over several points in time and really see what action is best for you. And you should REPEAT this process until you are satisfied you have a “Good Deal.”

Remember, it’s not you against the banks, it’s the banks against each other! That’s your LEVERAGE! Use it!

Pass this information on to everyone you know. If we all know how to make informed decisions and spend money wisely, we add stability to our economy and to our future.

You can access the Mortgage Payment Calculator at [http://www.enlightenedrefinance.com/Mortgage-Calculators.html]

Get more information about the Trend Master Refinance Calculation Tool at [http://www.enlightenedrefinance.com/Trend-Master-Details.html]

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“Take calculated risks. That is quite different from being rash.”

George S. Patton

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Aug11

The Power of Modeling Success

by Winston on August 11th, 2011 at 5:40 am
Posted In: Goals, Motivation

When we were children we imitated the things we saw our parents do, and said the things we heard them say. We also had hero’s we admired and were inspired to become. I remember Halloweens where my childhood friends and I all got a chance to become that superhero we admired most. We would not just buy and make the costumes but tried to speak like them, move like them and feel what they would feel. This behavior is called modeling.

Modeling is a conditioned behavior that we picked up from those we are closely associated with beginning in our childhood.  Unfortunately, we no longer need most of those behaviors by the time we reach adulthood.  Most of the time those learned behaviors are negative in nature and hold most people back.

Before you can reach any level of success, the negative habits must be transformed into positive ones.  The fastest and most effective way to do this is by learning to model other successful people.  This requires making some changes.  Awareness is the first step toward change.

You need to become aware of what it is that successful people are doing and have done that allows them their wealthy lifestyle.  Use that information to compare with the things you are doing.

Choose the Strategies You Want to Model

If you want to be successful, it makes sense to model the strategies of the successful.  It’s an old concept, yet it’s completely underused and often misunderstood.

We are talking here about modeling those strategies that you feel you want to integrate into who you are and then make them entirely your own.  It is a matter of personal choice what strategies you choose to master.  Step into a world of possibilities that may not have occurred to you or been open to you before.

Take the risk to model something that is slightly outside of your comfort zone.  If you do something you have never done, you’ll get a result you’ve never gotten before.  And that can be a good thing.

You can model anyone, living or dead.  Get specific details.  Check if they have an autobiography or a biography.  Speak to people that know or knew them. Read and, if possible, listen to their speeches.  Find out if you can meet the person.  You might even be able to ask them to be your coach or mentor.

By studying what other successful people have done, rather than finding your way alone, you can receive better results much easier.

To begin, you need to analyze exactly what it is that that person is actually doing to produce the results you would like to produce.  Once you have analyzed and understand what your model does, you can work at doing the same things.

The modeling approach is sometimes referred to as “fake it until you make it,” but there is nothing fake about it.  You are simply using a scientific approach to duplicate their thinking process.  The closer you can imitate their physiology the easier it will be to create the same thought patterns.

Eventually these new result producing behaviors will be programmed into your own personality.  You will have adopted the very same thought processes and be producing similar results. Then you will be the one others will want to model.

Success Leaves Clues

This is a powerful idea:  Success leaves clues.  If you can learn the methods that someone else used to succeed, then you can do the same thing.

Anthony Robbins said in his bestselling book Unlimited Power, “If you want to achieve success, all you need to do is find a way to model those who have already succeeded.”

Here are two questions for you:

-Whose success clues are you studying?

-Whose model are you duplicating?

Without a model, success will be much more difficult for you to achieve.  Choose one model and begin to implement it.  Don’t chase after multiple models, trying a little of this and a little of that.

Pick one and begin.  Action is the key.

How do you know which is the right model to follow?

What to Look for In A Success Model

Here are three things to look for in a model for online success:

1.  It should show you how to target a hungry online market.

2.  It should reveal to you powerful ways to generate website traffic.

3.  It should teach you how to convert prospects into customers.

Use the above criteria to critique the model you choose to duplicate.  The final step is to take action and actually implement your success model.  Who is your primary model of success?  What one person best captures your idea of living the dream?

Six Simple Strategies for Effective Success Modeling

Below is a simple strategy to help you model success.

In getting answers to these questions and using the responses,  youll tap into the success strategies of the person you are modelling. The important thing here is to take action on what you learn in a sense to do as they do and integrate those aspects of success into who you are.

1. Environmentally, what type of people does the individual surround themselves with, what type of mindset do these individuals have? How do they view and respond to the world around them?

2. How does this person you wish to model behave? How do they manage their emotional well-being? What is their skill set? How do they use that skill set to take them to the next level? How do they manage gaps in their skill set? Is their behavior reactive to other peoples’ moods and behaviors,  or do they stand in their own power and choose how they wish to behave in any given situation and the world in general?

3. Is this person a forward thinker, a strategist? To what extent are they focused on continuous improvement? Is this person a good  listener and able to assess a range of views and be decisive?

4. Find out what the individual’s belief and value system is. What is important to them and why? How and why do they do what they do?

5. Delving deeper into understanding the individual, what is their purpose? What is this person’s reason for being? What have they come here to be and do?

6. What is the ultimate success for this person, however they define this for themselves?

Many successful people live a life of no limits. Their focus being the world is theirs to have and to hold as they wish.

Success is a choice. There is no right time for it, so why not get  motivated, inspired and start right now to create the lifestyle of your dreams. Take the actions to model your way to success.

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Sep20

Make A Decision: Inner Freedom Comes From Within

by Winston on September 20th, 2009 at 4:31 am
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Man is born free, and everywhere he is in chains.

Jean Jacques Rousseau (1712-1778) The Social Contract 1762

“Man is free at the moment he wishes to be.”  Voltaire

If you are not free in thought, word, deed, vocation, relationship, and any other aspect of your life, make a decision today to become free.   After all we are free if we make up our minds to be.   We are each free to overcome the obstacles that block us from gaining our personal freedom and knowing authenticity and joy.  It all depends on our own will, values, attitudes, personal philosophies and attainment of spiritual growth. 

Lack of freedom results in ignorance which breeds fear. Fear distorts the individual’s perception of reality and results in restricted understanding.The individual lives in the prison of his own limited emotional and psychological scope encouraging suspicion, hatred, and confusion.

To those who perceive themselves as helpless, bound, too fearful to make a break their chains, let the love within you and your own inner wisdom show you the way to become free.  A person can become free in a prison, jail, the military or a hospital.  It is a matter of turning your stumbling blocks into stepping stones. 

Freedom comes from within.  There is no one’s permission you need to get.  No authority you need to submit to in order to get your freedom approved.  No one can tell you that you can’t be free on the inside where it counts.  They can hold your body hostage, but not your mind, heart and spirit where it counts. 

Forgiveness and unconditional love are two paths to inner freedom.  You can be imprisoned by your hatred and resentments just as securely as if you were in a maximum security prison.  Other paths leading to inner freedom are overcoming the hurdles of anger, self-pity, false pride, envy and bitterness.  All of these negative emotions eat like a cancer and keep you from finding joy and freedom.

Freedom is the result of having the willingness to do whatever it takes to overcome any road blocks  that stand in your way.    Perhaps fear is the result of  perpetuating illusions you have believed for too long.  You may believe if you take a risk you will be helpless in an uncertain future.  If you aren’t choosing freedom, you’re choosing fear. 

Let go and let God, or your higher power or the universe.  Fear, it is said, is False Evidence Appearing Real.   It is a fake boogieman that carries no real threat where there is love.

Fear is the opposite of love.  Get in touch with the love within you.  Be one with the God (or your Higher Power or the universe)  within which is Unconditional  Love.   Experience the Oneness of Higher Consciousness. 

Commit to excellence.  The rest is merely illusion and fear.  Freedom is an awakening.    Be prepared to be roused from your comfort zone of lulled sedation and habitual mind-sets of  “I can’t.  I’m trapped.”

Your natural state is one of happiness, health and abundance.  Are you cheating yourself out of the having the freedom to enjoy these qualities for some reason that doesn’t even have your full awareness?   Your refusal to confront your fears, leave your comfort zone or give yourself permission to alter your life is cheating you out of pursuing your dreams and having the universe manifest them in your life now.

 If you don’t meditate,  begin.  You will find the strength within to decide you want inner freedom and joy.  You can begin with ten minutes a day sitting in a straight back chair or on the floor with legs folded trying to focus on your breathing.  Thoughts will gradually come to you from a deeper source other than the rational mind.  You will begin to tune in and feel at one with your higher consciousness.

 When “monkey-mind” thoughts pop up to interfere with your meditation, just regard them as  clouds in your sky.  Say “thought” in your mind, and go back to focusing on your breaths.  In time, it will get easier,  and you will be able to meditate for longer periods of time and tune in more directly with your higher consciousness which has always been free.

A great hero of freedom who overcame severe obstacles to rise to become the first elected President of South Africa is Nelson Mandela.  Mandela was an anti-apartheid activist who was convicted on charges of sabotage, which really meant having the courage of his convictions.   He served 27 years in prison, 18 of these years on Robben Island, a very difficult place for prisoners.

 Mandela was very angry when he went into jail.  He was furious over the lack of justice.  But in prison he mellowed and even became gentle and compassionate.  He  practiced forgiveness.   Most social and political thinkers believe he could never have become the political and moral leader he did if not for the suffering he experienced.

During his time on Robben island,  he and a group of other Black prisoners would be taken outside every Thursday.  They were then commanded to dig a six-foot trench.  When they finished it, they were then told to get into it.  The white wardens  then urinated on them.  Then they had to fill the trench and return to their cells. 

When Nelson Mandela was about to be inaugurated, he invited these same wardens to his inaugural dinner.  The first time he sat down to break bread as head of state those same wardens were his guests.  He had freed himself from his anger and resentment.   Actually, because of forgiveness, he was free long before they opened the prison gates to let him out.

You have  the freedom to make your dreams reality.    Be committed to the path of freedom.  Stop using old  habits of thinking, interpreting  and responding to a life that no longer serves you.  Look at the world with fresh eyes.

“Set a goal to achieve something that is so big, so exhilarating that it excites you and scares you at the same time. It must be a goal that is so appealing, so much in line with your spiritual core, that you can’t get it out of your mind. If you do not get chills when you set a goal, your not setting big enough goals.”~Bob Proctor

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